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And so it goes....

I wonder how many of us, you...actually take the time to entertain the notion that maybe we are not being completely or even remotely honest with ourselves about the most important aspect of one's life, yourself, in terms of love, what we hold dear and precious, and, how these 'things' define or influence the way we lead our lives, what we think and our actions out there and what motivates and inspires them...wow thats one fukcing long sentence, but it sounds good written that way, sorta like breaking it up will lessen the impact or something.

I've been wondering why its so damn difficult to be a 'good' honest person, and why, on the contrary its so bloody easy being selfish, impatient, inconsiderate and just plain nasty to those around us, both known and unknown...?

Why is it like that? I'm trying to figure it out, and hopefully, bit by bit I'll get there...and hopefully I'll be able to understand, to some degree and then I could try and get people to realise that being a better person, although tougher is more rewarding, more challenging, more meaningful...purely (well to some degree) because its so much more difficult!

And so the mission commences...

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